Self-Love

Do you know what it means to be an Orphan?

It’s like, you never got true love from your parents, or maybe you didn’t have any blood parents, or maybe you did, but they still didn’t love you. I know all about abusive parents.

Understanding self-love

You know that rule: do unto others what you want done unto yourself. Do you know what it’s trying to teach you? It’s telling you, don’t pay for someone else, meaning don’t pay for punishments. Because when you commit wrong, then in the hereafter, you become your victim and you repeat it back to yourself. If you truly love yourself, you wouldn’t want to go under debt and receive pain because of mishandling of others.

Now, this doesn’t mean that you keep on being a doormat. That’s not what it means at all to live by the Golden Rule. To truly also love yourself, you should voice your sinless opinions or remarks back at people for assaulting you, including giving an accurate cause and effect back with the wisdom that you did not betray yourself by accepting wrong done unto you, nor did you transgress upon another because they violated you.

The Golden Rule protects you and teaches you self-love. Like, you wouldn’t wanna be your enemies, or like your enemies, or else how did you differentiate between you and them? How were you better? Do you wanna be your own assaulter? No! You wanna love yourself!

Loving yourself means, always playing it safe...